Homofobija - uzmâcîgas iracionâlas bailes no homoseksuâliem cilvçkiem, kas var izpausties kâ diskomforts kontaktâ ar homoseksuâliem cilvçkiem vai vçlme pasargât bçrnus no ðiem cilvçkiem, vai smagâkâ formâ - kâ aktîva cîòa pret gejiem un lesbietçm, vçlme panâkt viòu izskauðanu, kas var realizçties verbâlu uzbrukumu un pamudinâjumu veidâ, kâ arî kâ fiziska vardarbîba pret homoseksuâïiem.[1]

Iemeslu aizspriedumiem parasti var meklçt nezinâðanâ un bailçm no savâdâkâ, tâpçc ðeit bûs neliels ieskats homoseksuâlu cilvçku dzîvç.

Attiecîbu ilgums

Daþâdos pçtîjumos minçts, ka homoseksuâlu vîrieðu attiecîbas vidçji ilgst 1,5 gadus[2], citos, ka no 2 lîdz 3 gadiem[3]. Atseviðíos avotos pieejami dati, ka tipiskas attiecîbas ilgst pusgadu[4] un tikai atseviðíos gadîjumos pârsniedz 2 gadus[5]. 15% gadîjumu attiecîbas ilgst 12 gadus un ilgâk, bet 5% gadîjumu- ilgâk par 20 gadiem.[6] Latvijâ vidçjais heteroseksuâlu laulîbu ilgums 2004. gadâ bija attiecîgi 13,3 gadi pilsçtniekiem un 14,3 gadi laukos[7].

Uzticîba

Par seksuâli uzticîgiem savam laulâtajam sevi atzîst 85% laulâto sievieðu un 75,5% laulâto vîrieðu. Homoseksuâlo pâru vidû uzticîbu partnerim apliecina 4,5% vîrieðu.[8]
Pçtîjumâ ar 156 homoseksuâliem vîrieðiem, 7 atzina pilnîgu uzticîbu partnerim, visos gadîjumos attiecîbas ilguðas lîdz 5 gadiem, attiecîbu ilgumam esot lielâkam par 5 gadiem, neviens no aptaujâtajiem neatzina sevi par uzticîgu[9].

Attiecîbas un laulîba

Populârais uzskats, ka homoseksuâla ir desmitâ daïa sabiedrîbas tiek apstrîdçts pçtîjumos, kas uzrâda, ka par homoseksuâliem uzskatâmi 2,5% vîrieðu un 1,4% sievieðu[10]. Citos avotos: 1.3% vîrieðu un 0.7% sievieðu ir homoseksuâli[11]. Apkopojot vairâkus pçtîjumus, par homoseksuâliem tiek atzîti mazâk kâ 3% sabiedrîbas[12].
Attiecinot reìistrçto homoseksuâlo laulîbu skaitu pret kopçjo homoseksuâlo populâciju, redzams, ka iespçju legalizçt savas attiecîbas izmanto 21% Vermontas ðtata homoseksuâïu[13], bet Zviedrijâ- 2%[14], Nîderlandç- 2,8%[15].

Partneru skaits

Bell, Weinberg pçtîjumâ noskaidrots, ka 43% homoseksuâlu vîrieðu dzîves laikâ ir vairâk par 500 seksa partneru, 28%- vairâk par 1000[16]. Citâ pçtîjumâ noskaidrots, ka neskatoties pastâvîgu partneri, gejiem vidçji ir 8 partneri gada laikâ[17].

Vardarbîba partneru starpâ

Ar vardarbîbu no partnera puses saskaras- lesbietes: 11,4% gadîjumu, geji: 15,4% gadîjumu, precçtas sievietes: 0,26%, precçti vîrieði: 0,05%[18].

Homoseksuâlisms un pedofilija

Pretçji uzskatam, ka homoseksuâlismam nav nekâda sakara ar pedofiliju, pierâdîts, ka 25% no homoseksuâlu vîrieðu ir pedofili[19], kas ir 10- 25 reizes vairâk par pedofilijas prevalenci sabiedrîbâ[12].


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Atsauces:

1. http://www.politika.lv/index.php?id=5307
2*. Maria Xiridou, et al, "The Contribution of Steady and Casual Partnerships to the Incidence of HIV Infection among Homosexual Men in Amsterdam," AIDS 17(2003): 1031.
3*. M. Saghir and E. Robins, Male and Female Homosexuality(Baltimore: Williams and Wilkins, 1973): 225; L. A. Peplau and H. Amaro, "Understanding Lesbian Relationships," in Homosexuality:Social, Psychological, and Biological Issues, ed. J. Weinrich and W. Paul(Beverly Hills: Sage, 1982).
4*. Adrian Brune, "City Gays Skip Long-term Relationships: Study Says," Washington Blade(February 27, 04): 12.
5*. M. Pollak, "Male Homosexuality," in Western Sexuality: Practice and Precept in Past and Present Times, ed. P. Aries and A. Bejin, translated by Anthony Forster(New York, NY: B. Blackwell, 1985): 40-61, cited by Joseph Nicolosi in Reparative Therapy of Male Homosexuality(Northvale, New Jersey: Jason Aronson Inc., 1991): 124, 125.
6*. "Largest Gay Study Examines 2004 Relationships," GayWire Latest Breaking Releases, www.glcensus.org.
7.http://www.csb.lv/lteksts.cfm?tem_kods=dem&datums=%7Bts%20'2005-05-25%2013%3A00%3A00'%7D
8*. Laumann, The Social Organization of Sexuality, 216; McWhirter and Mattison, The Male Couple: How Relationships Develop(1984): 252-253; Wiederman, "Extramarital Sex," 170.
9*. David P. McWhirter and Andrew M. Mattison, The Male Couple: How Relationships Develop(Englewood Cliffs: Prentice-Hall, 1984): 252, 253.
10*. Dan Black, et al., "Demographics of the Gay and Lesbian Population in the United States: Evidence from Available Systematic Data Sources," Demography 37(May 2000): 141.
11. http://www.statcan.ca/Daily/English/040615/d040615b.htm
12. http://www.catholiceducation.org/articles/homosexuality/ho0095.html
13*. Tavia Simmons and Martin O'Connell, "Married-Couple and Unmarried-Partner Households:2000," Census 2000 Special Reports(U.S. Census Bureau, February 2003), 4, Table 2. Online at: http:www.census.gov/prod/2003pubs/censr-5.pdf.
14*. Scott Shane, "Many Swedes Say 'I Don't' to Nuptials; Unions" Baltimore Sun(January 16, 2004): 1A.
15*. "OLR Backgrounder: Legal Recognition of Same-sex Partnerships," OLR Research Report(October 9, 2002): 1.
16*. A. P. Bell and M. S. Weinberg, Homosexualities: A Study of Diversity Among Men and Women(New York: Simon and Schuster, 1978), pp. 308, 309; See also A. P. Bell, M. S. Weinberg, and S. K. Hammersmith, Sexual Preference(Bloomington: Indiana University Press, 1981).
17*. Xiridou, 1031.
18*: "Extent, Nature, and Consequences of Intimate Partner Violence," U.S. Department of Justice: Office of Justice Programs: 30; "Intimate Partner Violence," Bureau of Justice Statistics Special Report:11.
19. Blanchard R et al. Fraternal birth order and sexual orientation in pedophiles. Archives of Sexual Behavior 2000; 29: 463-78.
*- materiâli no http://www.frc.org/get.cfm?i=IS04C02

Homofobi-tas kaut kâ skan ar tâdu kâ pievienoto vçrtîbu...vai tas ir kas slikts???
...diez cik procentu sabiedrîbas priecâtos,ja uzzinâtu,ka viòu dçliòam parâdîjuðies glumi drauìeïi ar klizmu un vazelîna tûbiòu arsenâlâ.
un vçl,kâ varçtu nosaukt aktîvus pediòus,kuri pusi savas dzîves velta pedarastijas popularizçðanai-par heterofobiem?... vai nç par pid-pop-fobiem...he gandrîz,kâ pingpongs:))) vai arî te darîðana ar izrâdîðanos
...hei TU heteroseksuâlais homofob!!!!!!!!!!!! :D forði skan

„Sestdiena””22.-28.jûlijs Ieva Benfelde „ Zina, ko jût vecâki” -- 1966.gada 4.aprîïa rîts bija uzausis pelçks. Bçrniòð negribçja un negribçja dzimt. Tâs nebija pirmâs dzemdîbas. Mâjâs jau bija òiprs gadu un 10 mçneðus vecs puisçns. Ðkita, ka otrreiz viss varçtu bût vieglâk, tomçr bçrniòð nesteidzâs. Pçc mokoðajâm dzemdîbâm viòa pirmais kliedziens bija aizsmacis, pats mazulis zili melns. # Tik ïoti gaidîtâs meitiòas vietâ bija piedzimis otrais dçls. Mâris Sants. Tas pats Mâris Sants, kurð viens no pirmajiem uzdroðinâjâs publiski atzît savu homoseksualitâti un vçlâk tika izslçgts no Latvijas Eveòìçliski Luteriskâs baznîcas.
Dçlçns auga slimîgs. Pusgada vecumâ saslima ar plauðu karsoni. Skolas laikâ viòð bijis ïoti alerìisks, tâpçc izjutis vienaudþu nepatiku pret sevi. „Viòð bija savâdâks bçrns,” atceras Sarmîte Santa. Varçja raudât, piemçram, par miruðu putniòu.”
Redzot, cik âtri Mârim birst asaras, bçrni viòu íircinâjuði uz nebçdu. Smags pârbaudîjums bijis strâdâðana kolhoza lauku brigâdç. Ne tâpçc, ka darbs bûtu grûts un apnicîgs astoògadîgam bçrnam. Bet tâpçc, ka pârçjo skolçnu pâridarîjums nereti balansçjis uz cietsirdîbas robeþas. Kur meklçt glâbiòu? Pie mammas. Maz pa mazâm starp mâti un dçlu veidojusies
Îpaða savstarpçjas uzticçðanâs saikne.
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1996.gada janvâra beigâs... Mâris atklâja mâtei, ka ir homoseksuâls. Meklçjot vainu sevî, viòa domâs pârlapojusi savu dçlu bçrnîbu atkal un atkal.
„Kad tikâm ðajâ dzîvoklî, kur ir vanna ar silto ûdeni, es iesçdos vannâ, Vari uzliku uz kâjâm, Mâri uz ceïiem, Kasparu uz krûtîm, pati kâ zivs pa apakðu un lasîju priekða pasakas tik ilgi, lîdz ûdens atdzisa.” Tâ izlasîts arî Antuâna de Sent-Ekziperî „Mazais princis”, daþreiz pat raudâdami lasîjuði. Vai varbût dçla seksualitâti ietekmçjis daþreiz mîïumâ pateiktais – tu man tik sirsnîgs kâ meitiòa? Sarmîte jutusies nepilnvçrtîga un apjukusi.
..varbu† nevajag tâ darît, katrâ ziòâ paldies par atklâtîbu.

Zinâms procents bçrnu,laikam ir ar noslieci uz ðo parâdîbu. Daudz ,kas tieðâm ir atkarîgs no audzinâðanas.
Nesen lasîju par pçtîjumu Anglijâ. Ir doma, ka vairâku bçrnu ìimençs ,seviðíi lielajâs ìimençs,pçdçjiem bçrniem ir lielâka varbûtîba kïût par homoseksuâïiem. Dabamâtes organismâ izdala íîmiskas vielas,ka feminizç zçna prâtu.Tikai nesapratu dabas mçríi.
Domâju,ka daudz kas atkarîgs no bçrna audzinâðanas.Seviðíi puberitâtes vecumâ.
Bçrnam ir jâredz pareizâs ìimenes modelis.

Francijas valdîbas ziòojums vçsta - Nç Homoseksuâlai „laulîbai”
Noteicoðais faktors bija rûpes par bçrniem. "Divi tçvi vai divas mâtes" – " bioloìiski nereâli un neticami”
PARÎZE, 2006. gada 16. februâris, (LifeSiteNews.com)
Dþons Henrijs Vestens

Valdîbas komisija, kas tika izveidota pçc Francijas Nacionâlâs asamblejas prezidenta prasîbas, ir atzinusi, ka homoseksuâla „laulîba”, un iespçja homoseksuâliem pâriem adoptçt bçrnus un veikt medicînisku iejaukðanos, lai ðie pâri paði iznçsâtu bçrnus, nav atbalstâma ar valsts likumu.
Pçc vairâk kâ gadu ilga pçtîjuma, ðî ziòojuma noteicoðais faktors bija komisijas lçmums „apstiprinât un aizsargât bçrnu tiesîbas un pieðíirt ðîm tiesîbâm lielâku prioritâti kâ pieauguðo iegribâm.”
Jaundibinâtajai komisijai, ko nosauca par Informatîvo Misiju, bija jâierosina izmaiòas likumâ un administratîvajâs metodçs, kas veicinâtu labâku bçrnu tiesîbu aizsardzîbu un jâziòo par jebkâdâm novçrotâm izmaiòâm Francijas ìimenç.
Komisijas ziòojumâ, – Parlamenta ziòojums par ìimençm un bçrnu tiesîbâm – ko publicçja 2006.gada 27.janvârî, bija atzîts, ka ir notikuðas nozîmîgas izmaiòas franèu ìimenç – “tâ kïuvusi daþâdâka un mazinâjies tâs institucionâlais stâvoklis”, taèu tika norâdîts, ka bçrnu interesçs ir, ka homoseksuâla ‘laulîba’ joprojâm tiek aizliegta.

Informatîvâ Misija pielika lielas pûles, lai uzklausîtu daþâdus viedokïus. Tâ organizçja 14 diskusijas un intervçja 130 cilvçkus no daþâdiem Francijas sabiedrîbas slâòiem. Tâ devâs uz Spâniju, uz Lielbritâniju, Beïìiju, Nîderlandi un Kanâdu, lai novçrtçtu reformas, kas bija uzsâktas citâs valstîs.